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Before we can move forward in our growth journey, it’s often necessary for us to recognize what we will lose.

Believe it or not, part of the reason we don’t move forward in growth is because we are benefiting from staying where we are — enjoying comfort, security, the illusion of control, or any number of different things.

In Galatians 4, Paul tells us that building our lives around the wrong things makes us slaves.

“And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying out, “Abba, Father!” Therefore you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ. But then, indeed, when you did not know God, you served those which by nature are not gods.” Galatians 4:6-8.

That’s strong language, but Paul’s doing something very strategic here.

Paul is alluding to a part of Israel’s story shortly after they had been set free from slavery in Egypt.

God raised up Moses and performed great miracles to lead them out of those chains, and the Israelites praised God for their freedom, but it wasn’t long before they began to complain about how they missed all the benefits and comforts of their lives in Egypt.

If you remember the story, they were still longing for the “leeks”, a type of onion they liked back in Egypt!

They even began to talk about going back!

Can you imagine being homesick for a land where you were a slave?

Now, that might sound crazy, but, according to Paul, that desire may be more familiar to you than you think.

If there’s something you need so badly that you can’t imagine your life without it, then you are a slave to that thing.

You have given up your freedom. You are bound to it.

It could be a possession, a relationship, a title, or a reputation.

Right now, a record amount of people just across the united states, including psychiatrists and psychologists from a secular viewpoint, are seeking counseling, and psychiatry!

They can’t seem to get a handle on all of the traumatic events and all of the things going on in our society.

They are double minded, often by assuming that there is a way to quickly assuage the back-and-forth cognitive dissonance of mankind when horrific events or evil events taking place.

Many are finding out now that in fact, they are deeply entrenched in great fear and great rage.

As a Christian Counselor, but also as a Minister of Christ’s most powerful Truths, and one who flows in the gifts of The Spirit, here is what I have found out throughout many years of working with people who have gone to psychiatrists or psychologists, who have no biblical base or depth in what they do.

It’s purely clinical. It’s therapeutic study that goes through the steps of addressing the mind and possibly medically.

But the spiritual depth is empty, because they don’t know what to do and many don’t acknowledge God, because they themselves feel the mind of science, the mind of humanity is created to be probed and trained like a behavioral science.

When you use psychiatry and psychology and loading people up on antidepressants or anti-anxiety medicines without addressing the spiritual void as well as poor diet, you’re basically putting a Band-Aid over a very deeply rooted problem.

I am not saying that there are not times there are medications needed for things like brain injuries, or those who need to have a chemical imbalance corrected, but the trend is just give somebody an antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication and “they’ll feel a whole lot better”, rather than addressing what is causing the upsetting and the triggering to throw the adrenaline glands into full panic mode, or depression mode!

I believe dietary care and proper supplementing have done tremendous things and have seen it in the lives of many clients.

I have a few wonderful naturopathic Christian Doctors who I have referred people to and they have seen tremendous results as well.

Of course you have to stick with it. There’s that thing called discipline.

It’s not a “quick pill” that you immediately feel better with! It’s a steady, working towards caring for your temple, your body, your brain, your cell structure, with proper nutritional supplements, as well as getting off of stimulants like tons of sugar and poor oils and bad nutrition.

Once again we’re addressing a core issue and that is we want to fix the problem “quickly” without the discipline and yes, a little bit of accountability that it takes to get well.

Normally, when you’re counseling people as a Christian, you look for the root of a few things. Bitterness, the pride of life, and, if they were physically, verbally/emotionally or sexually abused.

There are other variables. For instance, if someone has had a head injury or those who have had PTSD disorder from experiencing a traumatic event.

But, without the core foundation of knowing that God wants to restore his people and wants to restore ALL people, if they will let him, and using that as the ultimate guiding source, a lot of psychology leaves people simply with coping mechanisms, but rarely feeling deep joy, and a sense of humility.

My heart goes out to these people because they just found out that the god of science once again has failed them.

Because we’ve been given a new identity in Jesus, those chains have been broken and there is a new path paving the way to our freedom. And though it’s a clear and seemingly simple idea, it’s not always easy in practice.

It’s one thing to get you out of slavery, but it’s another to get the slavery out of you.

Our tendency and flesh nature — is to continually return to what has seemingly provided comfort, security, and safety, yet all the while turning our backs on the journey to wholeness and freedom that God desires for us. in other words, we return to familiar patterns.

But there’s some good news for us today!

God is a loving father!

Imagine a father watching his young toddler take their first unsteady steps. What does he feel? How does he react?

Is he impatient and frustrated that his child doesn’t go further? Does he explode in anger when his child’s knees become unsteady and they fall to the ground?

Do you think you’d see extraordinary disappointment in his eyes as you hear him shout, “Why aren’t you walking already? Look at your older brother! He can run laps around this house! Why can’t you get your act together?”

No way! Not in a million years would you expect that kind of reaction.

Why not? Because a loving father celebrates the baby steps no matter how small they are.

He knows those steps are the beginning of a long journey to becoming a mature adult. He’s patient with the progress and celebrates every victory, no matter how short-lived.

In the same way, your heavenly Father longs to see you move forward in your spiritual life. He loves and celebrates your baby steps.

Here are two questions for you to reflect on today.

♦ What is it I am getting from staying where I am?

♦ And, is there something I am too scared to lose?

As you begin to answer these questions, ask God for the Grace and Strength you need to take a small step of trust today!

Then take time to thank God for his patience and forgiveness that meet you every time you stumble back to that old life and old way of thinking.

When Jesus invites us to follow Him and live a new way of life as a part of His Kingdom, He invites us to transfer our trust.

He invites us to let go of the things we have previously trusted for our security and significance — and to take hold of him as our new source.

This “letting go” of our way of life can, at times, feel a lot like dying, like we are losing our life as we know it. It can be scary and even painful to take that step.

Even after we decide to trust Jesus and follow Him, we will at times find ourselves clinging to portions of our old way of life.

We will catch ourselves returning to those familiar sources of security and significance. And each time we will need to make the decision — again — to let go and take hold of the life Jesus offers us instead.

When you find yourself facing another moment like this, (and you will), remind yourself of Jesus’s promise in the passage above.

It is through the losing, the letting go, of our lives that we find them, in the deepest and fullest sense.

Jesus invites us to transfer our trust from the old, familiar things we cling to for hope and security to, something much better: Jesus himself.

What areas are the hardest for you to let go and trust Him with?

Often, when we have been reduced by life’s hardships, we measure our ability by our human timeline and arrive at the conclusion that “we can’t”.

Maybe that’s where you are right now.

Maybe all you hear reverberating in your mind is:

“I can’t do this.

I can’t cope.

I can’t manage.

I can’t survive this.

I can’t.”

I want to remind you of the Lesson of Esther:

The last thirty days or weeks or months don’t rule your life.

They don’t get to dictate your future.

They don’t have a right over you.

You belong to God’s “such a time as this”.

Like Esther, I had to learn this lesson in my own life!

♦ I had to repent of my “I can’t”.

♦ I had to capture that thought over and over again, and make it obedient to Christ.

♦ I had to agree with God’s Word that, He who had called me is faithful; He would surely do it.

One of the most well-known — sections of the Sermon on the Mount is Jesus’s primer on true happiness or blessedness.

These are often called The Beatitudes.

Here, Jesus describes what happiness is all about. But he doesn’t primarily describe emotions or feelings. Instead, he outlines a surprising way of life — an upside-down existence.

To be blessed is to be accepted by God, whether circumstances seem to confirm or deny it.

By starting his sermon not with a list of “to-dos” but by letting us know who is blessed, Jesus clarifies that those in His Kingdom don’t work for blessing but from blessing.

Jesus’s disciples don’t have to seek blessing; they are already blessed by God. In kindness, Jesus announces what we are all looking for: joy.

Humanity has been seduced into a vision of the good life based on physical health, ample money, and minimal challenges.

But Jesus turns it all around, explaining that the most fortunate people are those who are “socially disregarded and recognize their deep need for God”.

It’s not that God despises comfortable people; it’s that he knows the benefit of spiritual disruption, especially when those strong assumptions about the good life are dangerous.

In The Kingdom of God, the happiest people are oriented around love, not accruing greater possessions or power.

To walk in step with Jesus is to walk in the way of Love —a Love that seeks to bring reconciliation where there has been fragmentation, a Love that rejoices over Mercy, not resentment, a Love that works to end Injustice, refusing to stand by idly.

This is the path of life that satisfies our souls.

Jesus clearly states that the blessed are not free from trouble.

Rather, they endure trouble as they bear witness to Jesus’s path.

The blessed life is connected to the cross. Patterning our lives after Christ, requires the death of our egos, our “false selves”, and the larger culture that rewards self-centeredness.

Yet as God raised Jesus from the dead, so, too, he will raise you and I from the dead. As God vindicated his Son, God will also vindicate those who choose the way of the Son.

So be of Good Cheer!

Following Jesus on the narrow path places you among the most blessed people on earth! Oh God, help me see and seek the blessed life of dying to ourselves!

I would like to now share a word of wisdom and prophetic encouragement with you.

I am impressed to share these words with those of you (which is probably most all of us ) that have been weary and troubled, and still fight with dark shadows that try to come and encroach and upset you, and caused you to feel as if you are alone at times in your life.

Prophetic Word

“I AM The Spirit of Grace

I AM The Spirit of Mercy, and I AM The One that was sent to comfort you.

The world will forever be in upheaval — because mankind constantly fights between Truth and disobedience to Truth.

There are no gray areas. You are either with Me or you are against Me!”

“He who is not with Me [once and for all on My side] is against Me; and he who does not [unequivocally] gather with Me scatters” Matthew 12:30.

“Many tend to reside spiritually in areas where they think that perhaps they can slowly choose whether they yield to, me or whether they stand firm in their own desire to be in control.

For those that have harmed you, for those that have wounded you, for those who have misused my scripture and twisted and yes, have at times use them as weapons, I will bring my complete and righteous judgment.

I give them time to repent, but with repentance also comes with open admittance to their sin.

Men don’t like to hear that word because my word does not feel easy or comfortable at times. Yet I, The Spirit of God refuse to enable the flesh of any human.

I AM doing a work in you in these days that is creating a greater dependency upon Me and a greater gratitude for My ability to move the impossible mountains in your life.

These days on earth are so short when you see it from my viewpoint, yet I AM moved with compassion, for I know you feel as if they are moving slowly at times.

Resting in My Presence is a Balm to a troubled soul.

It causes a reset of all intentions and brings you back to the place of communion with Me like Adam and Eve did in the garden before they fell.

It’s in rest.

It’s in reflection.

It’s in rejoicing, that you re-set.

Come away, My Beloved Child, and rest in my presence on a daily basis finding time for Me, to rest in My Presence, and you will sense a great calm come over your spirit, soul, and your body, for I AM the one who restores your soul.”

“A heart at peace gives life to the body…” Proverbs 14:30.

“I bind up your wounds, and I heal your broken heart.

I who began a good work in you…

…I AM faithful to complete it to its fullest.”

“I am convinced and confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will [continue to] perfect and complete it until the day of Christ Jesus [the time of His return]”. Philippians 1:6.

Closing Thoughts

Find a quiet place and settle in to spend some time being still with God.

Friends, you might have to fight for it, but be intentional to get to the place where you are able to be internally still.

Ask God to make you more aware of His Presence.

Ask Him to highlight how he has been working in you and how you can actively participate in your spiritual growth.

Finally, thank Him for His Faithfulness and ask Him to sharpen your awareness of His Spirit working in you.

Prayer:

God, you are a loving Father.

Thank You for being patient with me as I learn to trust you.

Amen!

 

In His Shadow,
~ Mary Lindow ^©

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Mary Lindow has a passion for encouraging others – all generations, careers or vocations to live expressing excellence through personal integrity, healthy accountability, and wise management of talents and skills. She’s a sought after keynote, inspirational, humorous speaker and teacher across the USA and internationally in Ministers & Spiritual leaders Conferences, and training seminars for various organizations.

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